這其實是寫給老公的信裡面節錄出來的，但覺得很可能可以受益到一些人，所以特別在這裡出賣老公，貼上來與大家分享啦。
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我相信『非凡』是藉由許多『平凡的行動』塑造而成的。我的意思不是要你去做些什麼不一樣的事，但是開始對你對自己所做的事情產生知覺，並盡可能地在你的腦子裡練習更正那種錯誤信念（例如，我不夠好，或是我很弱等等）。
I believe ‘extraordinary’ takes a lots of ‘ordinary’ acts to built.  That means that I am not asking you to do anything different, but to be aware what you’ve done to yourself, and practicing correcting that false belief (ex. I am not good enough or I am weak…) in your head any chance you can.
我知道你有多麼的非凡，但藉由我告訴你並不能將你變成一個非凡的人，而是需要你開始相信自己才能夠啟動樣的改變。
I know how extraordinary you are, but it doesn’t take me telling you to change that.  It takes you to start believing that to make a difference.
藉由接受你自己，你會開始為自己開啟一扇門去接受他人的不同，也不會被某種既定的觀念／表象給限制住。透過接受他人的不同，了解這個世界上每一個事情的存在與發現絕對都有它的原因存在的話，你將會反射出一種『非凡』的特質。我想，我所說說的是：『非凡』不是一種完全不同的存在方法，而是藉由在平凡的行動中產生覺知的單純存在。
By accepting yourself, you will then open a door to accept the difference in others and not to be limited by certain outcome you perceived.  By accepting others of beings, understanding every things exists/happens for a reason, you will then be projected as “extraordinary”.   I guess what I am trying to say is that “Extraordinary” is not a different way of being, but a simple being by raising awareness in ordinary acts.