I used to trip all the time when it comes to Friday the 13th.  I did not know what was tripping me even on the flattest road I walk, but I started to believe Friday the 13th is such an unlucky day just like everyone else (even though I am not a Christian).  Then something must happened to me that I started questioning if it was me that cause all the tripping?  You see, people will always find evidence if they have their intention set.  I started to wonder; maybe it was me who believe bad thing would happen on Friday the 13th, therefore, every bad thing that happen become my evidence to validate that belief.  So to prove my theory right, I decided to focus on looking for good thing that happen to me on Friday the 13th.  Not the good thing good thing, but thing that is better than my expectation.  For example, Vancouver is not rainy today even though it’s overcasting.  But I’d considered that a good thing since it was pouring rain whole day yesterday.  By collecting evidence of good thing that happens on Friday the 13th, I eventually turn my tripping day into a better day.  But I am not going to lie to you, it did take me about 5 years to stop tripping though. ;p  But there goes to show you how powerful your mind is. Change the way you look at things and the things you look at will change.(Quote from Wayne Dyer)

 

Ep. 30. Lost soul

I’d always had people come to me and asked if they were lost soul.  I don’t even know who came up with this term at the first place, but one thing that I am confident of is that whoever came up with this term is definitely not a psychic.  I am not saying that there’s no lost soul out there.  Actually, you know what?  I’d have to correct myself: there is NO lost soul out there.  but there’s definitely lost spirit. (As to me, soul is a consciousness existence without a shape or form, but spirit exist in a human shape).  When spirit is lost, they are trapped in a dimension where there’s no boundary and they do not see or hear anyone.  Though this dimension does exist, the spirit don’t usually stay there too long.  As I said, we are all guided by our spirit guide, but you will have to be open to listen to them before you can receive guidance from them.  So, to make my point clear; there’s no lost soul.  If you were a lost spirit, you will remain lost in spirit form.  If you were a living things, the chance is that your soul is not lost, but your are experiencing consciousness or ego lost.

Before we get into anything deeper, do understand that feeling lost is perfectly normal during soul evolution. In fact, it is a necessary process for a soul to evolve.  It is through this sense of lost that we have motivation and urge to seek for solution.

Now let’s talk about why you are feeling lost.  it took me really long time to figure out that sense of lost is actually caused by human perception.  let’s face it, we human have a perception so strong that we don’t even know that we have it.  Let me give you couple words for example; good figure, good life, healthy eating and positive living etc…  Have you noticed that each word that I mentioned, you had already had an image in your head how it should look like?  That perception usually create a sense of stress for us.  In order to reach that goodness, we are often forced to give up our born senses, but to follows what society wants us to achieve.  And because we are giving up our senses gradually without knowing, it eventually create the sense of lost though we are doing everything ‘right’.  (As you must know by now, that definition of ‘right’ is what the society had taught you, not what you were born to know.)

C’mon, let’s face it.  Good thing can never be called good if bad thing never exist.  It’s like God would not be called God, if Devil did not exist.  The universe had taught us everything has two side.  When there’s day, night would follow.  When there’s good, there’s also bad.  That’s to say that when you put all your energy to embrace positivities and good, what about the negativities and bad that you were born with as well (those are usually the task we’ve set to conquer)?  While you praise your high, what do you do when you are on your low?  We were not born with happy emotion only, we came with a whole package of anger, sadness and frustration as well, didn’t we?  It is when we experience sadness, we understand what happiness really is like.  It is when we come to accept all parts of us (and not just the good part of it), we then learn to understand what true happiness really is.  So when you praise your positivity, learn to accept your negativities as well.  When you are pushing yourself to be high, learn to be low as well.  Don’t just do everything right, but do what make you feel right.  Even when you feel like crying and hate the world for a second, so be it, because that may be the part of you that was never given chance to come out before.   Accept it as a part of you, embrace this is who you are and what make you different.  Then you will soon learn to detach yourself from the rights society had trained you to believe, and more insync with your sensation and intuition that you were born with.  It was then, that sense of lost will slowly diminish.  Because you will be living your life while still connecting to your soul.

We all come to this world for one purpose, is to figure out who we are, what we are, and who we decide to be.  It is through this confusion of figuring things out, we eventually discover who we are.  So, no, there’s no lost soul in this world.  If you have a physical form and can feel, the chance is that you are not a lost soul, but experience a sense of lost from your ego.  That is also to say that you are on the perfectly right track.  Learn to accept your good and bad, high and low, you will slowly bring your sensation back and not feeling so lost anymore.